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Unpack the complexities of youth travel baseball with Ken Carpenter as we welcome Hall of Fame high school and current travel baseball coach Mike Yinger to the Athlete 1 Podcast. You'll get to the heart of what it takes to raise athletes in today's competitive landscape, from handling financial demands to encouraging multi-sport participation. This episode is not just another play-by-play; it's a candid and valuable playbook for anyone involved in youth sports.

Explore the fine line between fostering a competitive edge and ensuring player development with insights that go beyond the usual coach-speak. We tackle the often-overlooked topics, such as the effects of overzealous coaching on young pitchers and the evolving role of parents as their children mature in sports. Mike Yinger doesn't just share strategies; he shares stories that highlight the importance of integrity and skill in the game of baseball.

We touch on the dreams of young athletes aiming for college baseball and the guidance they require. Listen as we share powerful anecdotes that underscore the impact of thoughtful coaching and meaningful conversations. This episode isn't just about baseball; it's about the life lessons and lasting bonds formed when sportsmanship and genuine care are at the forefront of the game. Join us on the Athlete 1 Podcast for an episode that's a home run in revealing the true spirit of youth baseball.

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Chapters

00:00 - Youth Travel Baseball Development and Advice

15:47 - Coaching Baseball Strategies and Challenges

26:50 - Travel Baseball Development and Team Dynamics

34:32 - Baseball and College Aspirations

48:12 - Impactful Conversations With a Coach

52:56 - Athlete One Podcast Sponsored by Netting

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He has a $6,000 budget.

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But he charges every kid $2,700 before uniforms and he has a $6,000 budget.

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So I'm like, wait what he goes.

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Yeah, the club brings in all the money and then gives you $6,000 to work with afterwards and I'm like, so where's all the money?

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And then gives you $6,000 to work with afterwards and I'm like, so where's all the money?

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Like what's the point?

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You're locked in to Athlete One, a podcast for athletes and coaches coming to you from Dublin, ohio, here to bring you expert advice, insightful conversations and powerful stories from guests who play or coach sports.

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Now veteran high school baseball coach and someone who has jumped out of perfectly good airplanes your host, ken Carpenter.

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Hello, hello, hello and welcome to Season 2 of the Athlete One Podcast.

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I'm Ken Carpenter and it's May, and high school teams are finishing up their baseball seasons and travel baseball is kicking into overdrive.

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What are the pros and cons of travel baseball?

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Today we address this and more with Hall of Fame high school baseball coach, mike Yanger, who has also been an athletic director and is currently an administrator at the high school level.

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He has two sons playing travel.

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This is the Athlete One Podcast.

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Hello and welcome to season two of the Athlete One Podcast.

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I'm your host, ken Carpenter, and I'm excited today to start off Season 2 with a good friend who's been a coach, an athletic director, and he's an administrator and right now is a travel baseball coach.

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Mike Yinger, thanks for taking the time to be on the podcast.

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Appreciate you having me here.

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I think it's kind of funny that we're back together again After all these years.

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We used to coach against each other and then we got to coach with each other, and now we're back talking more baseball.

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So I'm happy to be here.

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Well it's roughly about nine o'clock at night and you know you're getting home from a travel game for your son and this is after you put in a full day of work as a high school administrator.

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You're sitting down with me to talk travel baseball, I imagine you know.

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Have you had a chance to have dinner yet?

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Uh, you know, know, it's funny.

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We got uh chick-fil-a if that can be a sponsor um on the way home and we grabbed it and we had a quick meal and we're sitting down to eat.

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My oldest son, who I didn't have a game for, is downstairs and I can hear him uh throwing ground balls against the cement ground right now of the wall, and then my youngest one is in playing switch mlb the show.

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So I'm not quite sure if this ever ends.

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Well, you know, talk about your sons.

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You know what age group are they in right now, positions they play and do they participate in more than one sport?

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Yeah, so one of the things my wife and I talked about so she was a Division I athlete as well.

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She played at Dayton.

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We talked about making sure our kids had the opportunity to play multiple sports.

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During the course of that we found out our older son really enjoys to play baseball.

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So he's kind of focused in on baseball and he likes basketball.

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But you know we're not pushing him any way right now.

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Like I said, he's downstairs right now taking ground balls on his own against the cement wall.

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So you know, I think it helps that we talk baseball so much, and you know there's little things that we do, but just the fact that we're more sport oriented and we don't look at doing one thing only has really helped.

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So they're one's in middle school and the other one is how old he's 10.

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Okay, so he's playing middle school.

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And the other one is how old?

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He's 10.

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Okay, so he's playing 10U.

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Now here's what I can tell you about the question of when should they play or where they should play.

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What I found was my older son left, after 10U, the local community team.

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It was a travel team, it was small, and he started playing on a little bit higher level, like they got more kids from different places Played more tournaments.

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But we found out that at 10U, 11u, 12u, even 13U.

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Now he's playing at a higher level Again, the fields aren't there and and the opportunity to indoor hitting or whatever off-season workouts really aren't there at that age group, unless you're willing to spend, you know, three thousand dollars, right, um?

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And to be honest with you, even at 13 you I'm not quite sure if you need to do that, because if a kid wants to play, he's going to find opportunities to play.

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But again, you got two parents that were really involved in athletics and sports and mainly you know baseball and softball.

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So we kind of have a different mindset of what we talk about on a daily basis and I think that makes a big difference.

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Well, for the listeners.

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Mike played college baseball at Ohio Dominican University.

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He's a Hall of Fame baseball coach in Ohio.

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And what has been your approach to developing your sons at a young age?

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Well, I will tell you, a lot of it has to do with learning the game.

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You know we talk about it all the time.

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My son is getting older.

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He's 13 now, he's in puberty, he's getting bigger, he's getting stronger and he's having a lot of success.

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And I can tell you my 10-year-old will be the same way.

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But they both learned the game, and from 8U to 11U, it was just about learning the game.

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It wasn't about playing against the best competition.

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It wasn't about winning necessarily.

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It was about learning how to be the best player you can be.

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So when it does hit, you're ready.

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And I think you know with my older son, major, he seems to be at that point where he's seeing some success because of all the stuff he's put into it.

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You know understanding the game and playing the game the right way.

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It's starting to pay off and we'll see how it goes.

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You know, like you said, he's only 13 and you know that jump from 13 to 16 to 18.

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You know strength and ability wise is huge but it's almost like that you kind of prepare yourself for the next step, so when the next step comes you're ready.

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Makes sense.

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Well, you've coached high school baseball and you've been very successful at that, and we had an opportunity to coach a, I believe, 17 and 18-year travel team.

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What would you tell parents who are signing their kid up for travel that are in that 13 and under age bracket?

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You know, one of the things is you have to remember when you're playing 11 or 12 of you and down and it's the 50 foot um pitching mound, 75 foot bases.

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You know, I, I tell people all the time this is huge, this is a huge comment.

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I always say I don't think people understand until they start getting older, to it's it's 80 foot bases, 90 foot bases, but you know you'll have kids that can play shortstop and then when you get to 90 foot bases, you have short stops and it's hard to understand that you might be able to play third base but you're probably not a third baseman.

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And you start developing that mindset and understanding the older you get.

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You know, I always tell people it's like fast pitch softball, it's that you know the smaller, smaller distances.

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Anybody can field a ball and throw it across a diamond.

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But, like when you start understanding how to hold runners on, you know, knowing what to do with balls that are in the outfield, where to tell people to go.

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It's the little things.

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It's like I said you prepare your your players for that.

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So when they're getting older and they mature they can be better off.

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So my suggestion is find someone that knows what they're doing in the community.

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Have them be on a community team.

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Learn the game.

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You know, whether you play basketball, soccer, football, whatever.

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Learn the game.

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So when you get bigger and stronger, you can apply that, and when you start applying it, you're head and shoulders above other kids.

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You know, and it's not necessarily you're just bigger and stronger.

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It's like you know what you're doing and it makes a big difference for everyone involved and then you get more opportunities because of that.

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I've noticed that when that happens you know being a high school coach when you get kids in that are freshmen, a lot of times they, you know, they, they might have some, some decent skills, but they don't understand the game itself.

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And that's kind of what you're talking about, right?

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Yeah, it is it, it happens.

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It happens when you're young and you're you don't don't know how strong you are, but once you, once you start getting bigger, you start realizing that if you know what's going on, you can apply that.

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You know, um, I, my, my one son, my 10 year old, he has size nine shoes.

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That's huge for 10.

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And my 13 year old has size 12s and you're like that's huge.

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But my point is, they're not the fastest, but they know how to run the bases.

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You know it's like you're not the quickest, but you know how to make a move when you're playing wide receiver.

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All those things kind of come into play knowing the game, whatever you're doing, and then once you hit that spot, then you can start applying it.

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Just knowing what's going on and being able to get bigger and stronger, that's huge.

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So when you coached the older travel group.

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If a parent is out there saying all right, my kid's done the community baseball and he's 14, now I'm going to put him into travel.

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What do you recommend there?

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Do you think that they should just get on just any travel team, or just go to as many tryouts as you can and see where you work out?

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Well, I will tell you like okay, my older son played on a.

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He guest played for a travel team this weekend.

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He hit number 11.

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He normally hits two, three.

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He normally plays short, something like that pitch.

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He played second.

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He played left, played a little short as long as your son or daughter are able to do those kind of things and then they kind of let it play out.

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They'll be all right.

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But if your thought is, I want him to come in and be the shortstop or the center fielder, I probably want to find a team where he can be the main person on the team.

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I want to go all out for the top level team.

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I'd also look and see a lot of times honestly, at this age and I try not to coach and I am and my son's playing short a lot.

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That happens a lot.

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You know most of the parents are coaches and most of the kids play short and they come in and pitch and they do all the things.

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And it's because you're sitting at home with your son and you're eating dinner and you trust them and so you're going to trust your son to make the play or you know to throw strikes.

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But hopefully they get older 14, 15 years old when they're playing 60, 90, they don't have parents coaching anymore and then you can kind of let them see okay, where do they, where's it fall?

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You know.

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Well, let me ask you this when you were coaching the 18U team that you coached, how did you approach the game itself?

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Because it seemed like, from my experience from being around you, you were teaching them the game there and they were playing it more like a game rather than just, hey, everybody just gets up there and everybody just keeps swinging and you know, like you were teaching the bunting and the little things, that got you guys a lot more wins.

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Well, not only that, it's crazy because a lot of schools will say colleges will say we will say we want to see this kid hit, we want to see this kid do this.

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But a lot of the scouting and that's kind of like my focus when I was coaching them was I want to put them in places where they can be, successful.

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Having a guy on second with no outs.

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He's either going to hit the ball the batter's going to hit the ball to the right side or he's going to bunt.

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He's going to move him over to third.

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That's going to enable my next batter to look good, because all he has to do is hit the ball and he gets his RBI.

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He's going to come out of his shoes and a guy at third is going to tag.

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He's going to score.

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People want to see they know the game.

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So, like those kind of things are a lot more important than people realize.

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What's crazy is how few of coaches know the game.

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It's funny that we talk about this because one of the major things I'm dealing with is at 10, 11, 12, 13 years old, is umpires know the game.

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That's the hardest thing for me to deal with, Because I'll talk about a balk.

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I'll talk about runner interference.

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I'll talk about.

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You know, leading too early Crazy things that I think that they should understand.

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You know, leaving too early Do crazy things that I think that they should understand.

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You know, because when I coached high school and college, I always said I'm here, I'm here to play the game.

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Our guys are here because they've worked hard.

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We expect you, the umpire, to give us everything you got too.

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And at first the umpires were like well, don't talk to me like that, right?

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But after a while they realized, oh man, he just loves the game.

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He's just passionate about the game and he knows his kids are working as hard as they possibly can too.

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Unfortunately, the age group travel baseball umpires.

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They aren't there, you know.

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They're there because they can't find umpires to do these games and they kind of just basically pick whoever they can.

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It's been hard for me.

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I still will tell you, I've never been thrown out of a game.

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This fall, believe it or not, 20-some years, this fall was the first time that I was actually ever told to go in the dugout.

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Really, wow, yeah, and and honestly it was because is because the um we had a kid get hit by a pitch and he knew the bat, he knew the pitcher and he smiled at him and he was, like you know, fake, like what's up, right?

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The umpire started yelling at him, telling him to go to first, and he didn't leave him alone.

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He just kept yelling, and yelling, and yelling and I said listen, I got him and he goes.

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No, I'm gonna take care I go.

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No, let me take care of the player.

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And then you know, you umpire the game I was like I'll take care of it.

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Well, he didn't like me saying that, so he goes, you can just go to dugout.

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So I was like, okay, you know, whatever, I wasn't causing any issues with it, but just part of the game.

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I mean, I, you can't say anything because they're so, they're so quick to make a trigger right, and then that's kind of it's the way the society is now.

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But it kind of hurts because you can't really teach the game, because a lot of times they'll say a wrong call and it's completely wrong, but you got to go with it and then you just got to pull the kids over afterwards and say that's not the right call.

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Let me tell you what should have happened, right, and that's kind of the way I've been.

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Like you said, I'm coaching a game.

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I'm not just coaching a win, I'm actually coaching the game, which is a big difference, right, and that's ultimately what's going to make the players better now in your, your travel experience.

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What are some things that you've seen so far that it just you shake your head and go, oh my, my goodness, I can't believe this.

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I mean, I'm sure there's all those nightmare stories of yeah, there there are unbelievable stories.

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Um, like I said, there's guys that coach the win, um, and they don't understand.

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You just play the game the right way and you'll win.

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You'll win.

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That's just the way it works, right?

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You just, you don't get too emotional, you don't get too up and down, you play the game.

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But there are some guys that literally play to win.

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There's guys that are on third base clapping their coaches, clapping their hands, yelling at the pitcher oh, I'm just talking to my batter, no, you're not, that's fine.

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And then you know, I have guys.

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I'll have guys that, um, they'll pitch a kid, or their, their kid, they'll pitch him, 126 pitches a game.

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And you're like dude, you're nine, what are you doing?

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Like it, like it's okay, just take them out.

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But it's when it all costs, you know, because you need a lot of those guys, need that lead.

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Uh, ring, you get at the end of the game or end of the tournament to show that you're worth something.

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I don't know, maybe they get money, but I don't get any money to coach.

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So maybe they're making money and I don't know about it, but but I don't know it, just it's crazy and I will tell you after 13,.

00:20:55.667 --> 00:20:58.465
You know it kind of falls off, you don't get as many parents.

00:20:59.181 --> 00:21:05.265
And maybe I think some of the parents say, all right, they've passed me and they let other people take over.

00:21:05.265 --> 00:21:14.954
So I think if I were 14 or so 14, you, I'd start to look for actual coaches that coach the game.

00:21:14.954 --> 00:21:17.165
Yeah, that's what I would say mostly.

00:21:17.259 --> 00:21:20.747
Now have you taught your sons to play more than one position?

00:21:22.692 --> 00:21:23.673
Oh yeah, oh yeah.

00:21:23.673 --> 00:21:27.286
My goal is always to be able to.

00:21:27.286 --> 00:21:40.667
If you teach them to play shortstop or second base, teach them to play center field so they know to throw through the shortstop to go to third and they know where the shortstop should be to receive the throw.

00:21:40.667 --> 00:21:46.507
So you're playing catcher, you know where third baseman should be, you should know all the positions.

00:21:47.059 --> 00:21:48.968
If you know all the positions you can run the game.

00:21:48.968 --> 00:21:51.847
I think it's so important.

00:21:51.847 --> 00:21:59.468
Like I said, you don't just play third base, you're the third base man, so you know what entails with the third base.

00:21:59.468 --> 00:22:02.362
You know First base.

00:22:03.064 --> 00:22:05.672
I always hear people tell me first base is overrated.

00:22:05.672 --> 00:22:09.109
I think that is the most underrated spot.

00:22:09.109 --> 00:22:18.105
You know because if you know how to play the game, you know when to come off the bag, you know when to stretch, when to go for the ball in the dirt.

00:22:18.105 --> 00:22:23.150
You know all kinds of things and you need to be able to know that if you play in our position.

00:22:23.150 --> 00:22:34.615
Because if I'm playing third and I throw it across the diamond, I know one time I might just have you know a backhanded play and just throw it willy-nilly as fast as I can across the diamond.

00:22:34.615 --> 00:22:37.869
And if I one-hop the first baseman, I know he's going to go for it Right.

00:22:37.869 --> 00:22:43.039
But then sometimes if I eat it, I know he would come off the bag anyways because it would be a bad throw.

00:22:44.403 --> 00:22:52.107
So just knowing the game, like I said, knowing the game is invaluable, knowing how to play the game, whatever it is.

00:22:52.107 --> 00:22:55.769
I mean I watch my kids play on on switch.

00:22:55.769 --> 00:23:01.210
They know all the different moves with all the different fingers and all the different stuff.

00:23:01.210 --> 00:23:02.813
You know I can't do that.

00:23:02.813 --> 00:23:09.186
I don't know when to hit X, I don't know in X, y or they, they have these like side views.

00:23:09.186 --> 00:23:10.285
I don't know any of that stuff.

00:23:10.285 --> 00:23:10.681
But how?

00:23:10.681 --> 00:23:12.163
Or they have these like side views, I don't know any of that stuff.

00:23:12.163 --> 00:23:15.833
But how great is that that they can do those kind of things and they know the game.

00:23:15.833 --> 00:23:25.472
You know what, if you did that when you played a sport, you know, if you knew how to play baseball that way, think about how far advanced you'd be.

00:23:25.472 --> 00:23:30.451
You know, then you get away with not being as athletic as the next guy.

00:23:30.471 --> 00:23:34.038
Then you get away with not being as athletic as the next guy.

00:23:34.038 --> 00:23:49.010
Yeah, and you know, I always liked the guys that played multiple positions, because when you get to high school, the high school coach might have a stud shortstop and you know he needs a guy in the outfield and you want to be the backup shortstop or a starter in the outfield.

00:23:49.010 --> 00:23:49.732
You know what I mean.

00:23:50.981 --> 00:24:02.451
I always tell people that I'm like, when you go to college, we'd bring in seven shortstops, guarantee they would not be playing shortstop.

00:24:02.451 --> 00:24:13.261
All of them would not be playing shortstop, but you're probably going to find a place for them to play, right, you know, because they're going to be your best players and that's kind of the way it goes, because they're going to be your best players, and that's kind of the way it goes.

00:24:13.261 --> 00:24:22.211
The guys that are on the travel teams always think that their son is going to play shortstop at this high school or that high school.

00:24:22.211 --> 00:24:36.680
Well, then they go to the high school and they find out, like you said, there's three other guys that are just as good, if not better, and sometimes they're a year older, two years older, and they have more experience and they're stronger.

00:24:36.680 --> 00:24:41.136
So you just need to find a place to get on the field.

00:24:44.663 --> 00:24:44.984
Go ahead.

00:24:44.984 --> 00:24:50.827
I just can't tell you enough how important it is just to learn Learn the sports, learn the game.

00:24:50.827 --> 00:25:03.213
We talk about school work at home and if our sons aren't successful in a class, we're like well, how much you prepare how much?

00:25:03.213 --> 00:25:19.442
How many times did you do that math example to understand what was going to happen when you took the test, and that's kind of like the way we approach athletics, you know, are you practicing Well?

00:25:19.442 --> 00:25:21.685
You're not practicing Well, then the heck, are you?

00:25:21.705 --> 00:25:21.826
doing.

00:25:22.619 --> 00:25:25.269
And then really, what's practice?

00:25:25.269 --> 00:25:29.151
You know, like my 10-year-old goes out and he hits three times a week.

00:25:29.151 --> 00:25:31.738
All right, okay, he could probably hit five times a week.

00:25:31.738 --> 00:25:34.729
All right, okay, yeah, you can probably hit five times a week if you ask me.

00:25:34.729 --> 00:25:36.386
But we'll let him get there.

00:25:36.386 --> 00:25:43.026
But you know, if he's not successful, I might look at him and be like, what'd you do when you hit?

00:25:43.026 --> 00:25:45.044
Were you actually working hard?

00:25:45.044 --> 00:25:47.526
Or, you know, were you messing around?

00:25:47.526 --> 00:25:52.769
And if he says I was working hard, I was doing what I can, then okay, we'll go from there.

00:25:53.711 --> 00:26:03.201
But you know, as a high school coach, how many times did you come across a parent that would be upset and you'd say, well, how much are they working?

00:26:03.201 --> 00:26:04.104
Well, they're practicing.

00:26:04.104 --> 00:26:05.729
Okay, what's practice look like?

00:26:05.729 --> 00:26:10.810
What are they doing outside of being here?

00:26:10.810 --> 00:26:12.339
Well, they don't do anything.

00:26:12.339 --> 00:26:13.885
They practice five times a week with you.

00:26:13.885 --> 00:26:23.550
No, that's not going to cut it, not if you want to be great, and that's kind of the way everyone else is doing that.

00:26:23.550 --> 00:26:24.924
So what are you going to do?

00:26:24.924 --> 00:26:27.547
Like I said, same thing with school.

00:26:27.728 --> 00:26:50.113
Yeah, well, that kind of leads into my next question Talk about the impact travel baseball has on high school teams and their coaches the high school coaches, because it could be good and bad, because you know a dad might be coaching them all the way up until they get to high school and they were the, the starting short off, short stop and the lead off batter.

00:26:50.113 --> 00:26:54.630
And then all of a sudden they come to the, to you on the high school team, and it's a totally different picture.

00:26:55.791 --> 00:26:59.385
Well, I always, I always think about you, know when you think you're really good.

00:26:59.385 --> 00:27:14.721
We went to the state semifinals one year finals and, uh, after the game I got a great email from a parent and the parent said if we had any coaching, we would have won a state championship.

00:27:14.721 --> 00:27:25.886
And then he let me know how he was a semi-pro coach for a number of years and you know he would have been able to take this team to the state championship.

00:27:25.886 --> 00:27:31.468
And I I told him thank you, um and you know you do what you can.

00:27:37.700 --> 00:27:39.391
But at the same time, afterwards I kind of reflected on what you're saying.

00:27:39.391 --> 00:27:40.638
This guy's coached his kid all the way up.

00:27:40.638 --> 00:27:43.067
The kid played shortstop for him.

00:27:43.067 --> 00:27:46.348
He played right field sparingly for me.

00:27:48.441 --> 00:27:55.469
They played on kind of a decent travel team, but not the level of we're playing in.

00:27:55.469 --> 00:28:01.047
So you know, I think parents need to have that expectation of.

00:28:01.047 --> 00:28:06.948
If I think my son's that good, well then we need to go to that next level and see how it goes.

00:28:06.948 --> 00:28:10.046
Um, if he can't get there.

00:28:10.046 --> 00:28:20.106
You know, maybe we look at it a different way, but a lot of times parents tend to think that their kids are the best.

00:28:20.106 --> 00:28:25.688
Like this weekend, my son, like I said, hit 11 and played wherever.

00:28:27.962 --> 00:28:36.813
Are there too many teams playing too many tournaments and not focusing on development?

00:28:38.402 --> 00:28:41.009
So, if you ask it, that is a great question.

00:28:41.009 --> 00:28:48.392
So this weekend at a 10-year-old tournament we played some very poor teams.

00:28:48.392 --> 00:28:50.015
Poor.

00:28:50.015 --> 00:28:59.608
The kids had fun, they scored a lot of runs and at the end of the day they felt like they got better.

00:28:59.608 --> 00:29:02.327
The other team got a chance to play.

00:29:02.327 --> 00:29:06.527
They got a chance to play in a tournament they probably would never play in.

00:29:06.527 --> 00:29:12.648
So it's hard to say right, you have a bunch of kids that want to play, let them play.

00:29:12.648 --> 00:29:19.866
After a while you'll start seeing kids that want to play at a different level and they'll go to a different level.

00:29:20.621 --> 00:29:23.750
I talked to a parent last weekend of a 13-year-old.

00:29:23.750 --> 00:29:36.834
He said he wanted to play on a different team because his son was playing on a team that made seven errors in one game and he wanted to play for a team like ours, the one that we're playing on 13-0.

00:29:36.834 --> 00:29:45.596
I said you can try it, but you do realize he won't be the shortstop and hitting three and will be like you said.

00:29:45.596 --> 00:29:52.492
He'll be a guy, right, he'll be a part of the team and I don't think it's ever a bad thing.

00:29:52.492 --> 00:29:54.520
We had a nine-year-old last year.

00:29:54.520 --> 00:29:58.026
He wanted to play higher, competitive baseball.

00:29:58.026 --> 00:30:00.730
Fine, you know, go for it.

00:30:00.730 --> 00:30:06.349
But our 10-year-old team, for the most part, yeah, we'll win a lot of games.

00:30:06.349 --> 00:30:07.192
We'll learn the game.

00:30:07.192 --> 00:30:22.832
When they're 13, 14 years old they'll be ready to start branching off, play a little more and then, once you get to 60, 90, I think you see a lot of kids start stopping to go into the next level because you know you don't hit a home run over 200 foot fence.

00:30:22.832 --> 00:30:24.779
You know, like you do in 12 year.

00:30:24.779 --> 00:30:26.482
So you know those.

00:30:26.482 --> 00:30:27.585
Those are the fun times.

00:30:27.625 --> 00:30:32.333
So if you ask me, are there a lot of teams playing a lot of travel baseball?

00:30:32.333 --> 00:30:36.344
Sure, there's a lot of kids that want to play.

00:30:36.344 --> 00:30:39.589
You know, and you get older.

00:30:39.589 --> 00:30:43.843
Like you said, a 17, 18 year old team we played on or coached.

00:30:43.843 --> 00:30:48.172
They played good competition because they're a good team.

00:30:48.172 --> 00:30:53.071
You know, every once in a while you'd get a team in there that didn't belong in a tournament.

00:30:53.071 --> 00:30:55.848
They quickly learned they didn't belong in a tournament.

00:30:56.819 --> 00:31:00.611
So, ah, to play baseball, go ahead.

00:31:00.611 --> 00:31:04.891
You know, if you're really good on a team, go try to play on another team.

00:31:04.891 --> 00:31:08.868
But if you're just upset because your team's losing, you might want to look at yourself.

00:31:08.868 --> 00:31:10.152
You know.

00:31:10.152 --> 00:31:14.082
But you know, if a parent were to ask me.

00:31:14.082 --> 00:31:16.045
They're like I get parents say, well, what should I do?

00:31:16.045 --> 00:31:30.401
Um, I'd say stay a community as long as you can, because if you're not in a community and you're not playing 60, 90 and that basically is high school fields you're going to have a hard time finding fields.

00:31:30.401 --> 00:31:32.083
You're going to have a hard time finding fields.

00:31:32.083 --> 00:31:34.545
You're going to have a hard time finding places to practice.

00:31:34.545 --> 00:31:43.932
Communities mainly use their schools, their district schools, and when they have that they can do a lot more.

00:31:43.932 --> 00:31:46.054
You can have fall and winter practices.

00:31:46.054 --> 00:31:47.855
Then you play spring.

00:31:47.855 --> 00:31:52.549
You play 30, 40 games when you're 10U.

00:31:52.549 --> 00:31:52.794
That's fine.

00:31:52.794 --> 00:31:54.723
You don't need to play 85 games.

00:31:55.286 --> 00:32:01.501
I always laugh at the the eight, you, eight, you coach talks about winning 94 games.

00:32:01.501 --> 00:32:05.106
We had a coach, uh around here.

00:32:05.106 --> 00:32:11.016
He went 94 and six and they won all these tournaments.

00:32:11.016 --> 00:32:13.326
And afterwards I looked at him.

00:32:13.326 --> 00:32:14.931
I said so, who is the MVP?

00:32:14.931 --> 00:32:16.664
And he kept rattling off.

00:32:16.744 --> 00:32:18.410
All these names shook my head.

00:32:18.410 --> 00:32:20.066
I said, oh, he goes.

00:32:20.066 --> 00:32:20.448
What do you mean?

00:32:20.448 --> 00:32:29.651
I said you're the MVP, the pitcher is the MVP and ate you, like everyone, throw it to their bat and they hit it right.

00:32:29.651 --> 00:32:47.164
So you know, it's great that you win a lot, but it's also great that you develop, like you said, and when you get older you'll start playing on teams that have a little more more and you know more life and and what they want to do, and you know that's when you start seeing the difference.

00:32:47.164 --> 00:32:54.531
And you can really see a difference when you play some of these tournaments and you know your team is not even close to all the other teams.

00:32:54.531 --> 00:33:04.954
Well, it's either you need to find another team to play on, to be a part of, or you need to realize that this is where you are and you enjoy playing.

00:33:04.954 --> 00:33:17.721
There's nothing wrong with enjoying playing baseball Nothing all nothing.

00:33:17.740 --> 00:33:17.901
What is?

00:33:17.901 --> 00:33:26.616
What are your thoughts on the fees it costs to either what some of these crazy super elite teams charge, or the tournaments are just raking in cash and you know?

00:33:26.656 --> 00:33:33.311
yeah, I think I think the fees come from the tournaments.

00:33:33.311 --> 00:33:41.301
I hope I was talking to somebody this weekend and he has a $6,000 budget.

00:33:41.301 --> 00:33:51.473
But he charges every kid $2,700 before uniforms, right, and he has a $6,000 budget.

00:33:51.473 --> 00:33:54.346
So I'm like, wait what he goes.

00:33:54.346 --> 00:34:08.536
Yeah, the club brings in all the money and then gives you $6,000 to work with afterwards and I'm like, so where's all the money?

00:34:08.536 --> 00:34:10.588
Like what's the point?

00:34:14.936 --> 00:34:15.617
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00:34:32.666 --> 00:34:41.807
And I know, you know, when I coached, when we coached together, you know, the fees were nothing and all we did was pay for the tournaments and shoot.

00:34:41.807 --> 00:34:47.949
We had one uniform, top and a hat and we were.

00:34:47.949 --> 00:34:51.768
I thought we were really good, you know, and it was.

00:34:51.768 --> 00:35:06.739
I think people realize it wasn't about the name, you know, the recognition, it was more about playing the game and we got recognition, but it was from playing the game the right way, right, I don't know.

00:35:06.739 --> 00:35:14.018
I think it's hard, because you got to, you got to worry about having the right person in charge.

00:35:14.018 --> 00:35:24.197
Because you got to worry about having the right person in charge, because if you don't have the right person, the right coach, you're going to be miserable for a long time.

00:35:24.197 --> 00:35:32.952
And you know, communication is a key as a coach, knowing that you might not know anything according to everyone, being able to handle those kind of conversations.

00:35:32.952 --> 00:35:35.831
Yeah, those are the kind of things you know I talk.

00:35:36.144 --> 00:35:37.572
I talked to somebody just the other day.

00:35:37.572 --> 00:35:45.976
We have a new kid on a 10 U team and he hurt his knee and I reached out to I'm just an assistant.

00:35:45.976 --> 00:35:48.391
I reached out to the parent and I said hey, how's his knee?

00:35:48.391 --> 00:35:49.414
He's new.

00:35:49.414 --> 00:35:53.615
The kid is super insecure about playing.

00:35:53.615 --> 00:35:58.590
You can tell the parents don't feel like they're part of the team.

00:35:58.590 --> 00:36:02.447
But the fact that the one of the coaches just reached out to say, how's your knee ken?

00:36:02.447 --> 00:36:12.351
I'm gonna be honest with you, the kid didn't hurt his knee like the kid maybe scraped his knee, but they felt like he, you know, wow, someone.

00:36:12.371 --> 00:36:18.547
Actually I told the coach, the parent coach, to hey, just want to let you know.

00:36:18.547 --> 00:36:21.907
I reached out and he said, well, I don't normally reach out on bumps and bruises.

00:36:21.907 --> 00:36:26.945
I'm like, eh, kind of want to just let them know you care, cause he's part of it.

00:36:26.945 --> 00:36:36.880
So, like I said, it's, it's hard, you know, because you don't get real thought-provoking coaches.

00:36:36.880 --> 00:36:40.775
You get a lot of times you get parents who are put in a role.

00:36:40.775 --> 00:36:44.373
You know they have day jobs.

00:36:44.373 --> 00:36:50.771
They're accountants, they're a different type, they're lawyers, they're different people throughout the course of the day.

00:36:50.771 --> 00:36:54.690
We're educators, so we know how to handle.

00:36:54.690 --> 00:36:56.996
We see things a lot differently.

00:36:56.996 --> 00:37:07.621
It's just one of those things you know it's you know we're lucky, but at the same time we're lucky because we get to coach every single thing.

00:37:08.483 --> 00:37:08.644
Yeah.

00:37:08.744 --> 00:37:16.155
Because we know what's, we know the expectations aren't too high and they're realistic for every kid and every parent.

00:37:16.155 --> 00:37:21.753
So that's probably the biggest thing is, you know, find a place to play where you enjoy.

00:37:21.753 --> 00:37:32.052
You can learn the game, no matter what you're doing, and from there kind of develop a bond with a coach that you feel like you can trust.

00:37:32.052 --> 00:37:34.114
Well, take care of your son, you know, then move on.

00:37:34.114 --> 00:37:35.664
And when you're ready you can trust, well, take care of your son, then move on.

00:37:35.664 --> 00:37:37.972
And when you're ready to move on, move on.

00:37:40.509 --> 00:37:51.134
I'm not sure how many times you've talked about your son, but I can tell you, when I first saw him, I knew you wanted him to play college baseball and I was like, all right, let's find a way to get it done.

00:37:51.134 --> 00:37:57.431
And, jake, we'd switched them and put them down underneath and just got an opportunity.

00:37:57.431 --> 00:38:02.052
And then he went on to play to high Dominican, he he changed.

00:38:02.052 --> 00:38:04.980
But my point is he got an opportunity.

00:38:04.980 --> 00:38:18.210
But that happens because someone like me who's been around, that knows what someone will look at, you know, around that knows what someone will look at, you know, takes the opportunity to help them out.

00:38:18.210 --> 00:38:21.199
And you can find someone to coach and help your son like that, I think you're better off.

00:38:22.465 --> 00:38:24.869
Yeah, and that leads into my next question.

00:38:24.869 --> 00:38:36.697
You know reality excuse me for baseball players and their parents when it comes to scholarships and exposure.

00:38:36.697 --> 00:38:38.259
You know what?

00:38:38.259 --> 00:38:39.690
What's the reality?

00:38:39.690 --> 00:38:40.434
You've had a chance.

00:38:40.434 --> 00:38:43.606
I left off at the beginning that you also coached college baseball.

00:38:43.606 --> 00:38:46.331
What's the reality that these parents need to face?

00:38:47.893 --> 00:38:51.786
uh, I think the reality is to have someone to be able to talk to him about it.

00:38:51.786 --> 00:38:59.659
I, if you tell me you want your son to play college baseball and you play for me, he's going to play.

00:38:59.659 --> 00:39:05.028
You know, I had a kid it was over COVID he didn't play at all.

00:39:05.028 --> 00:39:08.594
His junior year, senior year, they had COVID, he didn't play.

00:39:08.594 --> 00:39:14.438
He's on his fifth year at Bluffton as a starting right fielder.

00:39:14.438 --> 00:39:26.134
I had him going to Bluffton as a left-handed pitcher and from there he's their starting right fielder and, to be honest with you, bluffton has a good spot for him.

00:39:26.134 --> 00:39:30.432
Right, there's spots for everybody.

00:39:31.405 --> 00:39:36.768
You know to tell people they're Vanderbilt or they're Clemson material I got news for you.

00:39:36.768 --> 00:39:49.336
If they're Clemson and Vanderbilt material, or or Tennessee there's, they're going to be Louisville, they're going to be Ohio state, they're going to be Indiana, they're going to be all those different places you know are going to come knocking.

00:39:49.336 --> 00:39:53.989
So you gotta be realistic, meaning, go for it.

00:39:53.989 --> 00:39:59.556
You know, eighth grade freshman year, you want to go to LSU, go for it.

00:39:59.556 --> 00:40:02.561
Go down to the camp, see what prospect camp looks like.

00:40:02.561 --> 00:40:09.958
Don't be, you know, don't be surprised when you come back and say hey, dad, mom, everyone ran a six, seven.

00:40:09.958 --> 00:40:11.949
I'm running the seven, four.

00:40:11.949 --> 00:40:15.713
Okay, where can you go and run a seven, four?

00:40:15.713 --> 00:40:17.007
You know?

00:40:17.007 --> 00:40:19.170
I mean there are schools out there.

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There are schools out there that will take kids that work as hard as they possibly can and do the right things and contribute.

00:40:27.300 --> 00:40:30.108
There are schools out there, you know.

00:40:30.108 --> 00:40:33.014
Division three there's, there's a place for you.

00:40:33.014 --> 00:40:34.297
There is.

00:40:34.297 --> 00:40:36.369
It just depends on where it is.

00:40:36.369 --> 00:40:38.376
Might not even be in your home state.

00:40:39.465 --> 00:40:41.893
Yeah, well, you know you've had a chance.

00:40:41.893 --> 00:40:42.615
You've coached.

00:40:42.615 --> 00:40:44.789
You were an athletic director.

00:40:44.789 --> 00:40:56.039
You're currently a school administrator now and it's becoming tougher than ever for high school coaches because parents have such high expectations.

00:40:56.039 --> 00:41:25.914
And you know, and I kind of there's a part of me that says I get it because you know they're not a starter or they're getting little playing time, and then it turns into where they go after the coach and the coach doesn't know anything, right?

00:41:25.914 --> 00:41:28.112
So what do you tell coaches?

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Because there's a lot of good coaches that are getting out of the game.

00:41:31.393 --> 00:41:40.014
And, more importantly, what do you tell the parents when you know they're they love their kid, but their kid just isn't good?

00:41:40.054 --> 00:41:40.295
enough.

00:41:40.295 --> 00:41:42.771
Yeah, you want to know what I would tell the coach.

00:41:42.771 --> 00:41:45.813
I'd say coach summer baseball or something.

00:41:45.813 --> 00:41:50.836
If you love baseball and you want to play, coach the game, I'd coach.

00:41:50.836 --> 00:41:59.373
You know, I honestly goodness I'd coach summer baseball or do something where you can almost pick your players and decide who you want on your team.

00:41:59.373 --> 00:42:12.434
You know, because when you're the high school coach, a lot of times you get whoever's there and, like you said, so-and-so played shortstop for my team for eight years and now he's not good enough to play for you.

00:42:12.434 --> 00:42:14.699
Well, my expectations are this.

00:42:15.786 --> 00:42:43.869
You know, unfortunately, as an administrator I see it all the time you know, athletic director, administrator, you don't have the backing as a coach, as you thought you did, because the supplemental and I say it all the time I think I said to you supplemental is so small as a coach it's under $10,000, and it's not a livelihood as an athletic director or assistant principal.

00:42:43.869 --> 00:42:51.932
It's like you know they're providing for their family with their salaries and you just have extra to go on vacation with.

00:42:51.932 --> 00:42:55.273
That's what they think the coach is doing, right.

00:42:55.273 --> 00:43:21.264
So they're like well, you know, the parents are upset, so we're just going to move on and it's kind of like you're stuck because you're doing what's right and you know what's right, but same time the administrators are like, well, if they come after me, they can take my whole livelihood, my family's livelihood, and they're just taking your summer vacation.

00:43:21.264 --> 00:43:30.597
And I know that's not the right way to think, but that's truly how it ends up going, yeah, and it hurts.

00:43:30.597 --> 00:43:38.027
It hurts me because I know how much people care about what goes on.

00:43:38.047 --> 00:43:42.012
I mean high school coach of baseball, basketball, football.

00:43:42.012 --> 00:43:58.920
You don't do it at all for any other reason to help the player be great, and it's very, very hard to actually realize that what you do isn't really that important to everybody as it is to you.

00:43:58.920 --> 00:44:04.793
So my suggestion is you coach a sport.

00:44:04.793 --> 00:44:06.958
You go to a summer team.

00:44:06.958 --> 00:44:12.597
I like coaching summer college teams.

00:44:12.597 --> 00:44:14.228
That was fun.

00:44:14.248 --> 00:44:25.967
I mean I got the coach kids that knew what they were doing, wanted to get better, you know, loved playing and had the same passion as I did, and it was fun.

00:44:25.967 --> 00:44:36.009
You know, I like I like being around those kind of guys and makes a huge difference and unfortunately, high you got some guys that just want to show up and play.

00:44:36.009 --> 00:44:42.210
You know, one of my good friends right now is learning that he was a division one baseball coach.

00:44:42.210 --> 00:44:49.974
Now he's learning that he's not starting a kid, thinking, nah, I'm not starting him, and the parent comes in going why isn't he starting?

00:44:49.974 --> 00:44:53.086
And he's like, well, cause he's not good enough.

00:44:53.086 --> 00:45:01.570
You know, and when he has that conversation, parent might not take that as he's not good enough, he's lucky to be here.

00:45:01.570 --> 00:45:03.592
You might say, well, he has a right.

00:45:03.592 --> 00:45:11.159
And that's where you kind of you have that hard, that hard conversation that a lot of the administrators don't want to have anymore.

00:45:11.164 --> 00:45:26.474
A lot of the administrators don't want to have anymore, or do you foresee a time when that's going to change, where the parents are not going to just if things don't go their way and they're just going to go to the top and try to get you removed and move onto the next person?

00:45:28.266 --> 00:45:29.190
Yeah, it's going to be like that.

00:45:29.190 --> 00:45:32.152
I truly think it's going to be like that.

00:45:32.152 --> 00:45:33.349
I don't see.

00:45:33.349 --> 00:45:38.353
I mean, for the simple fact as being an administrator, I see teachers have the same issues.

00:45:38.353 --> 00:45:40.768
You know, right now they're not.

00:45:40.768 --> 00:45:45.570
That's their livelihood, so they have a union that's helping them.

00:45:45.570 --> 00:45:53.050
But I don't really see, especially in some of the affluent districts.

00:45:53.050 --> 00:45:54.277
I don't really see a change.

00:45:54.277 --> 00:45:55.704
You, some of the affluent districts, I don't really see a change.

00:45:55.704 --> 00:46:11.072
You know, I think we have a friend that won a state championship the year before and was fired the next year and he's a Hall of Fame coach and he has over 550 wins and it's like what are we doing here?

00:46:11.072 --> 00:46:13.860
Like what are we doing here?

00:46:13.860 --> 00:46:20.521
But a parent didn't like the fact that his son wasn't playing and made it about everything that it wasn't.

00:46:20.521 --> 00:46:24.893
It wasn't about the game, it was about everything that the person didn't bring.

00:46:24.893 --> 00:46:28.173
And you know, those kind of things they're going to get.

00:46:28.173 --> 00:46:31.193
I don't think they're ever going to get better.

00:46:31.193 --> 00:46:33.628
I don't think they're ever going to get better.

00:46:34.789 --> 00:46:36.773
I don't think they're ever going to get better.

00:46:36.773 --> 00:46:39.438
I don't think they're ever going to get better.

00:46:39.438 --> 00:46:40.119
It's a shame.

00:46:40.119 --> 00:46:54.429
But uh, cause a lot of the coaches out there, they, they're doing it for all the right reasons and you know, you know I think a lot of them realize, hey, it's not worth the headache that comes with it anymore, and no it's, it's it's disheartening for people like us.

00:46:55.152 --> 00:47:05.215
Yeah, I mean, boy, I would love to coach teams but at the same time, like I know, I couldn't survive some places.

00:47:05.215 --> 00:47:31.358
I know I couldn't, and it's not that it's not that I'm a tyrant, or I just know that I'd be honest and I'd tell somebody something they wouldn't want to hear and you know my expectations would be so high that some people wouldn't be able to handle it and they would try to find any way possible to make me look like I didn't care as much as I do.

00:47:31.358 --> 00:47:37.972
And it's, you know, like I I said, summer is actually pretty good because you get to know the kids, you get to know the parents.

00:47:37.972 --> 00:47:40.434
There's 11, 12 kids on your team.

00:47:40.434 --> 00:47:53.632
Honestly, you deal with, sometimes you deal with kids not hitting in the order, but try to work with them because you play these pool games, because everybody gets in the bracket.

00:47:53.632 --> 00:47:56.945
So you know it's kind of interesting the way that works.

00:47:57.487 --> 00:48:12.028
There's a lot of build-in to help the coaches yeah so, and if you want to coach, you want to teach the game, I I like a lot of things that didn't go in to the game, like mental, like what do you do?

00:48:12.028 --> 00:48:12.934
How are you planning?

00:48:12.934 --> 00:48:15.266
Are you doing the right things outside of the game?

00:48:15.266 --> 00:48:16.951
Are you being a good person?

00:48:16.951 --> 00:48:18.034
Those kind of things.

00:48:18.034 --> 00:48:19.905
I miss that kind of stuff more than anything.

00:48:19.905 --> 00:48:25.829
Is you know, being able to put my arm around a kid and talk to him about maybe making a different choice?

00:48:25.829 --> 00:48:27.070
You know?

00:48:27.070 --> 00:48:31.887
And then later on you get a phone call or a letter in the mail.

00:48:31.887 --> 00:48:34.119
It says how much they appreciate you.

00:48:34.119 --> 00:48:35.847
And you know, come to my wedding.

00:48:35.847 --> 00:48:38.152
Or my first kids named after you.

00:48:38.152 --> 00:48:39.536
It's those kinds of things.

00:48:39.536 --> 00:48:40.365
There's like whoa.

00:48:40.365 --> 00:48:42.490
You know the impact you had on people.

00:48:42.490 --> 00:48:43.974
It's, it's incredible.

00:48:43.974 --> 00:48:44.936
So those things I miss.

00:48:47.949 --> 00:48:49.291
Yeah, go ahead.

00:48:49.291 --> 00:48:52.699
So to finish up, I do a little quick rapid fire here with you.

00:48:52.699 --> 00:48:54.090
I know it's getting late.

00:48:59.110 --> 00:49:00.373
So, um, winning or hate losing?

00:49:00.373 --> 00:49:01.637
Oh, I hate losing.

00:49:01.637 --> 00:49:06.518
Why, oh I, I expect to win.

00:49:06.518 --> 00:49:09.251
Okay, you always expect to win it when you lose.

00:49:09.251 --> 00:49:28.724
Oh, I can tell you this when I was at DeSales that's a Catholic school in Columbus I can tell you this when I was at DeSales that's a Catholic school in Columbus when I was there, we would go on break Thursday, friday, saturday, sunday of Easter, and a couple of years we lost on Wednesday and I didn't talk to anybody.

00:49:28.724 --> 00:49:30.469
Thursday, friday, saturday, sunday.

00:49:30.469 --> 00:49:34.152
Until Monday we were able to play again, like my family would sit there and go.

00:49:34.152 --> 00:49:35.969
It was just a game.

00:49:35.969 --> 00:49:37.333
Yeah, I hate it.

00:49:37.333 --> 00:49:38.516
I hate losing.

00:49:38.516 --> 00:49:40.172
We win, I'll talk to you.

00:49:40.172 --> 00:49:42.512
We lose forget it.

00:49:43.244 --> 00:49:46.190
Yeah, no doubt I'm with you on that.

00:49:46.190 --> 00:49:51.192
Rank these three things and what you are best at.

00:49:51.192 --> 00:49:53.668
Were you better at?

00:49:53.668 --> 00:50:02.827
Being a player, a coach or fishing, what's?

00:50:02.987 --> 00:50:04.052
one, what's two, what's three?

00:50:04.052 --> 00:50:09.949
I tell my kids I was the best player, so, and then I?

00:50:09.949 --> 00:50:12.096
I don't know.

00:50:12.096 --> 00:50:14.806
Here's what I say, and you probably know this.

00:50:14.806 --> 00:50:16.347
I only do three things.

00:50:16.347 --> 00:50:21.471
Well, right, I coach, I fish and I teach.

00:50:21.471 --> 00:50:22.952
That's all I got.

00:50:22.952 --> 00:50:27.476
And I tell people all the time I'm like if it's anything else I can't do it.

00:50:27.476 --> 00:50:29.336
I teach, coach, fish, it's all I got.

00:50:29.356 --> 00:50:31.039
So you come to me and want to talk talk accounting?

00:50:31.039 --> 00:50:32.039
I don't know what you're talking about.

00:50:32.039 --> 00:50:32.980
You want to talk talking counting?

00:50:32.980 --> 00:50:34.101
I don't know what you're talking about.

00:50:34.101 --> 00:50:35.121
You want to talk about cars?

00:50:35.121 --> 00:50:36.322
Don't know what you're talking about.

00:50:36.322 --> 00:50:38.686
You want to talk about what bait do you?

00:50:38.686 --> 00:50:39.608
Yeah, I got you.

00:50:39.608 --> 00:50:41.072
You want to talk about.

00:50:41.072 --> 00:50:43.277
You want to talk about something I teach?

00:50:43.277 --> 00:50:44.847
I got you right.

00:50:44.847 --> 00:50:47.253
But those three things I don't know.

00:50:47.253 --> 00:50:54.617
I don't know if I would rank those, because my kids always ask me would I rather be a professional baseball player or professional fishermen?

00:50:54.617 --> 00:50:57.172
I'm like I don't know.

00:50:57.172 --> 00:51:01.172
I mean, go out on the lake all day and just see what happens.

00:51:01.172 --> 00:51:04.869
Or you know, face Randy Johnson, I don't know.

00:51:05.431 --> 00:51:05.813
Yeah, no.

00:51:05.813 --> 00:51:10.748
And the last question pretty seeks experience you had as a coach.

00:51:14.715 --> 00:51:18.661
Hmm, there are multiple Um one.

00:51:18.661 --> 00:51:37.788
One of my favorite experiences ever was I was playing a good friend in a district championship game and he sent me a picture of a kid crossing home plate touching the base while our kid is getting ready to tag them out and he said the run should have counted.

00:51:37.788 --> 00:51:43.336
Unfortunately, what the pick on this show was his kid?

00:51:43.336 --> 00:52:03.773
Uh, it ran out of the baseline about 35 steps before the tag was applied and the umpire I believe the guy's name was Kerry Fleming called him out of the baseline, called him out and the home plate umpire said that the run counted.

00:52:03.773 --> 00:52:05.177
Dan Steiner was his name.

00:52:05.684 --> 00:52:08.914
The run counted and I said Dan did the run count?

00:52:08.914 --> 00:52:13.094
And he goes, mike, the run counted just before he tagged him.

00:52:13.094 --> 00:52:16.554
So then I went and asked Kerry, when did you have the call?

00:52:16.554 --> 00:52:19.755
Oh, easily 30 steps before he tagged him.

00:52:19.755 --> 00:52:30.612
And then I talked to Dan and Kerry and we won that game, I believe, one to nothing, trying to remember who that team was.

00:52:30.612 --> 00:52:35.753
We played and won one to nothing and still hurt that guy.

00:52:35.753 --> 00:52:39.068
I know it hurt some, but yeah, that was a great episode.

00:52:41.155 --> 00:52:41.797
Unbelievable.

00:52:41.797 --> 00:52:44.391
I fell into that one.

00:52:44.391 --> 00:52:56.748
Yes, you did Well, hey, Mike, I appreciate you taking the time to sit down with me here, and you know it's almost 10 o'clock at night and you got to get back up again in the morning and do it again.

00:52:56.748 --> 00:53:05.432
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